For those of you that know me, I still work a full time job while striving to achieve my dream of being a full time personal trainer for those of us with atrial fibrillation. And my day job is in an industry known for being high-stress and with a high-burnout rate.
Because of this my organization takes health and wellness seriously. We often have specialists come and talk to us about topics like: work/life balance, stress reduction, time management and most recently, self talk.
The conversation really hit home for me because I’ve been doing a lot of self talk lately about my goals for Fey Fitness in 2018. I love helping people, but being a business owner isn’t a skill set I have yet, so there’s a lot of introspection regarding this. Today’s discussion at work got me thinking and I thought I would share the notes I took today in case they are helpful to others.
If you have questions please let me know. And as always, please like and subscribe to this site to stay up to date on new content, and head on over to Instagram (@fey_fitness) to give me a follow or to YouTube at Fey Fitness.
My Patreon page is now live, so please go show some love there as well. I’d like to make some upgrades to my videos to enhance your viewing pleasure, and any support would be greatly appreciated!
Be mindful of your conversations with yourself. Notice what message you say to yourself throughout the day. What positive statements can you substitute for negative self talk.
Examples – Negative or Positive self talk
“I have too much to do” or “I will put together a realistic plan for the day”
“1st things 1st”
“I am doing my best”
“Things will never change” or “I will do arrange a time talk with x about x”
“How can I make this better?”
“I have the choice to accept”
Be keen and to yours and others communication styles and traits. Tailor your messages to their style.
|· High level of emotional self-control, low-level assertiveness
· Precise, deliberate and systematic approach
· Industrious, objective and well-organized workers
|· Approach with agenda, quiet and serious
· Focus on task and accuracy
|· High level of emotional self control and assertiveness
· Decisive, results-oriented and competitive
· Independent and able to get things done
|· Approach with objective, business like
· Focus on task and conclusions
|· High level of emotional responsiveness, low-level assertiveness
· Sympathetic and empathetic to others
· Trust others
|· Approach with personal comment, friendly, casual
· Focus on relationship and agreement
|· High level emotional responsiveness and assertiveness
· “Big picture” people, innovators and risk-takers
· Ability to charm, persuade and inspire people
|· Approach with compliment, fast moving pace
· Focus on relationship, intentions and inspiration